Wednesday 17 September 2014

Sept 18 2014 Discussion

Please read the article at lease two times. First time without stopping to use a dictionary. 
See you in class tomorrow!

Matthew

Engagement Rings Are Actually 'Insulting'
INSULTING 'TO NOTIONS OF ACTUAL LOVE,' THAT IS: TAURIQ MOOSA

(NEWSER) – Diamonds have "little intrinsic value," writes Tauriq Moosa in the Guardian, so when large South African diamond mines were discovered in the late 1800s and De Beers Consolidates Mines was formed, its investors realized they would need to conjure up demand. That they were incredibly successful with their marketing is no surprise (who hasn't heard the tagline, "A diamond is forever"?). And yet we've forgotten that it's just that—marketing. Here's the truth, per Moosa: a diamond has nothing to do with your relationship or its permanence.

Rather, it's a useless bauble, it's overpriced (it starts decreasing in value the second you buy it, and prices continue to rise), and it's "insulting to notions of actual love." One survey found that the average engagement ring costs $5,200, and almost 12% of American couples actually spend $8,000 or more. Wouldn't that money be better spent on something else? If you think an engagement ring is a symbol of your love, consider this: "Why can't a beautiful home be a symbol? Why can't long-term investments be a symbol? Indeed, would it not be more impressive to show off a house than a finger rock?" 

By Evann Gastaldo,  Newser Staff - Posted Nov 4, 2013



Related articles and videos:

Song: Diamonds are forever          Shirley Bassey      http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=L6kxcFcO6Y0
Song: Diamonds are a girl’s best friend   Marilyn Monroe    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zCn4mTkxx2s




Discussion Questions


1.    Do you think it is necessary to buy a diamond engagement ring?


2.    How much money do you think is appropriate to spend on an engagement ring?


3.    Why are people willing to spend so much money on diamonds?


4.    Ladies: how would you feel about a man who refused to spend money on a diamond engagement ring because he wanted to put the money towards something else?

Gentlemen: how would you feel about a woman who demanded that her fiancé buy her an expensive ring?


5.    Married people: how did you/your partner propose?
Single people: how do you plan/hope to get engaged?

6.    Are you usually careful about how you spend your money or do you tend to blow it all when you want something? Do you spend a lot of money on unnecessary luxuries?


7.    What is the most extravagant thing you have ever splashed out on?
Why did you buy it? Was it worth the money? 


8.    Can you think of any other examples of useless/unnecessary products that marketing has convinced us that we all need to buy?


9.    What is the best way to show someone that you love them?



10.What is your most treasured possession (in terms of sentimental value, not monetary value) and why is it so important to you?

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